To all the boomers out there on this platform: a very big f off.
You can’t justify toxic behaviour from an elder simply because he/she is an elder – especially parents. Like seriously, what is wrong with y’alls boomer brains?
My parents provided for me when I’m young therefore they have the rights to be toxic towards me? Controlling? Gaslighting?
Like c’mon, as parents you’re f-ing bringing your kid into this world, you should be guiding them to a path that’s BEST SUITED for them, letting them EXPLORE what they want to do with their life.
Your kid has his/her own life, and their life is not yours. You’ve already had your own life to lead, don’t try to f-ing lead your unfulfilled dreams through your kid.
Seriously, I can’t stand these conservative mindsets. “Oh I put food on the table for you hence I get to dictate your life.”
Uh b-h, a big fat no? That’s a basic need and pretty much a big damn consequence of wanting to have a child, not an entitlement for you to dictate your child’s life.
I’d pretty much give you a big flick on the finger if I see y’all irl, but I can’t so here’s a big fat f you to all of you.
Netizens’ comments
- Probably wanted an GTR 35 from his parents and got rejected
- Typing this rant in your parent’s house ah? Aiyo Gen Z these days so cute
- What’s going on here
This person is angry with his parents, so he comes online to scold everyone who belongs to his parents generation
But he is scared of retaliation, hence ranting anonymously?
Am I understanding this right? - Actually what you say and how you say it speaks more about you than your folks
I would feel sad to have raised up a child who became an adult and speaks and think like you. But then again I don’t know your story.
Do parents come with a manual how to be the perfect parent? No. We learn as we go. If it is truly unbearable for you, you can always leave if you’re independent.
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react. Every family have their own story. I grew up in a toxic environment too. No doubt it cast a shadow in my life but I try my best to heal and move on. And I am happy to say I did not let history repeat itself.
Hope in time as you continue to age, you can find a way to put this anger down and find peace with or without the presence of your parent/s. Holding onto this anger can seep into every part of your being and affect every aspect of your life which I don’t think there is a need to. Hope you find peace soon.