Will I be hated if i don’t eat my bf’s mom’s cooking on CNY
So my bf’s mom just uses salt and pepper as seasoning or drenches food in bbq and it always smells like metallic dirt, which to me is just unappetizing and I can’t eat food that doesn’t smell good to me.
But that’s not the biggest issue.
The issue is she leaves frozen meat on the counter for hours to defrost. Which to me is a huge no-no and I refuse to eat any of her food she seems upset sometimes when i decline it.
Last Chinese New Year my bf got upset that I didn’t eat anything with his family so I’m a little hesitant to tell him I’ll come but I won’t eat anything because I already have health issues and getting sick for me would mean I’d be sick twice as long as a regular healthy person.
My bf has stomach problems often and i assume it’s from his mom’s food because that’s all he eats and when i cook his stomach problems get considerably better.
Chinese New Year is right around the corner and I am getting very unexcited and hope it doesn’t come cause it’s like another problem coming which sorts of gives me stress
But who knows?