My gf and i connect so well and i love her so damn much, we have been together flor nearly 8 months.
She has always been insecure and expressing feelings is hard for her. I try to give her time to let her figure out how to say things and that works most of the times.
Lately i have the feeling that i cant say what i feel or ill cause drama because she feels guilty that i feel a certain way. I think this just is because she is pretty insecure and scaree to lose me, as she already told me.
She also said that she is worried that I will cheat on her and said that she will leave a lovebite on me everynow and then so that other girls will know that I have a girlfriend.
GF thinks lovebite can ward off ‘evil girls’ macham evil spirits
The problem is I stay with my parents and goes to work like a lot of normal people. How am I going to explain myself to my colleagues, boss and my PARENTS!
I told her that she have to stop doing it or I have to end it and she started accused me of cheating
I can be really to the point because thats just who i am and i dont think that helps in these cases.
How do i help her with this? How can i say what i mean witouth giving her that blame?