I recently broke up with my boyfriend of five years. Breaking up is always a difficult experience, but I had to do it. It was a hard decision, but I just couldn’t stand it anymore.
My boyfriend had gained a lot of weight since we first got together, but that wasn’t the problem. It was his smell that was unbearable.
It was so pungent and smelled like vinegar. I tried to be understanding and supportive, but I just couldn’t handle it anymore.
We had been together for so long and I didn’t want to hurt him, but I knew I had to be honest and tell him the truth. I told him that I couldn’t be intimate with him anymore and that the smell was too much for me. He was obviously hurt and disappointed, but he understood why I had to do it.
The problem is that my boyfriend’s weight gain and smell are both related to his diet. He’s been eating junk food and not taking proper care of himself. He’s been told by his doctor to start eating healthier and to exercise more, but he hasn’t taken any of that advice.
I know that it’s not my fault, but I can’t help but be frustrated and angry. We used to have such a great relationship, but now it has become strained and uncomfortable. I don’t feel like I can be intimate with him anymore, and that’s a huge problem for us.
I know that I should be more understanding, but it’s hard for me. I don’t want to be in a relationship where I can’t be intimate with my partner. It’s not a healthy situation, and it’s not something that I can just ignore.
I want to be able to be close to my boyfriend again, but I’m afraid that until he makes some serious changes in his lifestyle, it’s just not going to happen. I want to be supportive and understanding, but it’s hard for me when I can’t even stand to be in the same room as him because of the smell.
No one should have to put up with this kind of situation, and I’m not going to anymore. I love my boyfriend, but I can’t be intimate with him until he takes care of himself and his health. It’s going to be hard, but it’s the only way that I can feel comfortable and secure in our relationship again.