My girlfriend can only come when her legs are together. She needs to tense the hip adductor muscles on the inside of her thigh quite hard in order to come.
This means that she has never finished from intercourse with me (penetrative or oral) and I’m not really sure how to proceed.
When we F she has tried using a toy or playing with herself whilst I’m thrusting but when her legs are open she is hypersensitive and gets overstimulated. This is obviously a problem if I am to eat her out.
I think that she has trained herself to only be able to come in this way. She told me that since she’s been doing it this way (legs ram-rod straight and tense as a board) since she was a child and anything else just doesn’t bring her to finish.
She does enjoy sleeping with me a lot and after each time that we F, she’s screaming, her whole body is shaking and I can feel her contracting but I would really like to be able to help her finish.
We’ve tried many ways and positions but none seem to be working or comfortable enough.
Is there any way that she can train herself to finish with her legs more open or failing that, any specific positions to try where her legs are closed and she can be stimulated?
We’ve tried the prone bone position a few times but I guess it’s too awkward for her to rub herself when she’s lying on her stomach.
I bought an expensive toy that we’ll try the next time we sleep together which should hopefully remove this issue.
A final note: we are both each other’s firsts and so are just as inexperienced as the other. Any advice would be much appreciated. I am at my wits’ end.