My bf is a mama’s boy and at first I thought it was pretty cute, now it’s starting to annoy the S out of me.
Everytime I jio him to somewhere nice, he’ll always wants to bring his mother cos he says she never try before also want to let her try.
He’s always talking about her and telling me stories about her. He loves to go out for dinner with her and he calls her every day. I thought it was really sweet that he was so close to his mother and not embarrassed by it.
But then, I started to notice that my boyfriend always seemed to be doing what his mom wanted him to do. For example, when it came time to pick a school or course, he chose the one his mom preferred, even though it wasn’t the best fit for him. He also always asked his mom’s advice before making any decisions, which was fine, but it started to get a little excessive.
I get it that his mom is a single parent and he’s the only child so he feels the duty to take care of her but what about me?
Every time we pak tor also got one light bulb, how to continue like that?
The worse part is I can sense that his mom doesn’t like me. In front of him, she pretends to treat me nicely but when he’s not around, she will tell me things like she doesn’t understand what her son sees in me, I better know my own worth and she will continue to join us for our dates to keep an eye on me.
Like wtf?
She’s really damn toxic I can’t take it. I’m only just his gf and she’s doing this alr. I can’t imagine what will happen if I actually marry him.