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GF COLDWAR TO BF, DON’T WANT TO SOLVE PROBLEM & AIR ‘DIRTY LAUNDRY’ TO FRIENDS

need some real advice as I’m trying to figure this one out

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been w my gf about a year now and we know of each other past dates and partners and how we were treated etc. She has been treated very badly in her past.

Like people ghosting on her, guys posting on ig stories but cannot reply her, she being apologetic to guys, she hating the feeling of being in a cold war with guys (even if it’s just a date) and more.

I have noticed a pattern in the past few months. She is doing all of these to me and she doesn’t even realize it. When I confront her she just Gaslight me.

– she ghost me when she’s angry

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– she can use fb and ig for hours without replying me

– she complains to her friends about me

– never apologetic even when she’s in the wrong

I’ve been contemplating if I should just cut my losses and move on. I love her and it hurts but I feel like a part of her hasn’t healed and she’s causing damage to me.

I’ve emotionally withdrawn myself from the rs (eg reply late, don’t bother when she’s angry) and I feel toxic.

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What would you do in my position? Everytime I voice out something, she gets annoyed at me and then ghost me cos she’s mad.

I kind of have my answer but I just wanna see how others who have been through something similar would react.

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