A netizen shared a story of reconsidering her boyfriend after realising that he has health issues. Well, Let’s look at marriages vows:
“I, _____, take you, _____, for my lawful wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. I will love and honor you all the days of my life.”
The girl probably will never be happy if she don’t understands in “in sickness and in health”.
Here is the story:
Hi all, I am writing to seek for genuine advices. Would appreciate if you do not judge and reply in a nice manner. I have been single for the longest time ( previous relationships were short-lived and had been dating with potential suiters that didn’t have mutual feelings).
I am the kind who “falls in love too deep, too fast” and am always the one who “woo” guys. Would linger for a while (like stay and hang out as friends with them) even after being rejected due them “not ready for a relationship”. I was often heartbroken after they eventually got into a relationship.
This happened twice and I finally realised that guys will always be “not ready” for the one they have no interest in. I learned my lesson to “cut off” in a hard way. Long story short, I finally met a guy who treats me well and embraced my imperfections. However, am writing to seek for advices if I should carry on knowing that he has serious health concerns.
I have feelings for him but my mum keeps asking me to reconsider our relationship and said that I will “suffer” in future if I eventually want to settle down with him (like, our offsprings might have poor genes/ he might pass on early etc…).
Thank you in advance for your advices!