A girl asked if she should start gaming so she can get to spend more time with her boyfriend.
Here is the story:
Should I start gaming because my bf likes it?
My boyfriend spends a lot of time gaming, but I am not a gamer at all. He is extremely passionate about it and I know that is good at it too. He is very close with his gaming friends, in fact his ex girlfriend was from the same gaming circle. They are no longer playing together but i cannot help but wonder if I should also start gaming with him.
I sometimes watch him play games and I will get lost on the map lol. He is not asking me to try and he is fine that I am not a gamer. I have other hobbies which I don’t try to get him into it either since I know those are not his interest.
Things have been going on well between us but with our differences in hobbies I don’t know if we will have problems in the future. At the same time I feel that having the space and freedom to do what we like individually is important too. We have been together for only 6 months but we really love each other and have made plans to get married in the next one year. Any advice will be helpful thank you.
Here are what netizens think:
- It is ok to have different hobbies as long as the hobbies doesn’t consume your life.You can join in just for fun but not necessary
- I love playing game and my wife love watching drama. She tried playing game with me but she don’t really like it because it’s complicated. So when I play game, she will watch her drama but we still sit beside each other and bond.
- Let him play in peace every once in a while or after he had helped out.