Earlier today, my girlfriend and I (22m) (22f) were having a conversation and she asked me if I could order food for her.
She asks me occasionally if I can buy her food and I have no issues with that.
This time, however, I was driving and I didn’t feel comfortable placing the order while commuting. Besides this, I had her check how much it would cost to have it delivered and it was 5 or 6 dollars more to order it compared to just picking it up in person.
I let her know that I can go and pick it up for her no problem instead of ordering it.
She asked me for my debit card info (which I had shared with her in the past) but I remembered I don’t have any money in that account. I did have cash on me, however. She then asked for my credit card information and I said no.
She asked why and I explained to her that I didn’t feel comfortable giving that information to her. Not yet.
After saying no, she then gets very defensive and questioned why I didn’t do that for her and I simply explained that I didn’t feel comfortable giving my credit card information but I was okay with giving my debit card instead.
She argued and said I’m ‘retarded’ because she could just steal money from my debit card when I get paid if she could and also argued that I didn’t trust her. Im upset that she said all of these things after the fact i simply stated I didn’t feel comfortable giving that info and Im a bit conflicted by her reaction. For more context, weve been together for a year and almost a month. Im honestly baffled and dont know what to do.
TLDR: Declined giving credit card information because I didn’t want to. Gf argues as to why she feels like she should get it, accuses me of not trusting her, unnecessary name calling to top it off. I feel like its an over reaction to a response.