When I first started dating my now-boyfriend, we seemed like the perfect couple. He was kind, funny, and treated me like I was the most important person in the world. W
e had been together for a few months and I thought we were doing great.
Then, one day, I had a dream. In the dream, my boyfriend was cheating on me with another girl. I woke up in a cold sweat, feeling devastated and betrayed. I knew it was just a dream, but it felt so real.
The next day, I confronted my boyfriend. I told him about the dream and asked him if he was cheating on me. He denied it, but I still couldn’t shake the feeling that he was being dishonest. I felt so hurt and betrayed that I threatened to cut off his ‘bird’ with a pair of scissors if I ever caught him cheating.
My boyfriend was shocked by my threat and tried to assure me that he would never cheat on me.
He begged me to forget about the dream and move on, but I couldn’t. I was still so hurt and angry.
Eventually, I realized that my dream was just that – a dream. I apologized to my boyfriend and we moved on. We are still together today and I never mentioned the dream again.
However, the dream still haunts me to this day. Whenever I start to feel insecure in our relationship, I remember the dream and it makes me feel scared and vulnerable. It reminds me that relationships are fragile and that trust is something that needs to be earned and not taken for granted.
I know that my dream was just a dream, but it still serves as a reminder to always communicate honestly with my partner and to trust my own instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, then it probably isn’t. It’s important to never ignore your gut feeling and to confront issues head on.
I’m so thankful that my boyfriend was understanding and that I didn’t actually go through with my threat to cut off his PP with a pair of scissors.
It was a wake up call for me to always be honest and open with him, and to trust my own judgement.