I recently met a girl friend of mine for dinner, we had not met for a few years as our schedules constantly clashed.
After dinner, I asked her if she wanted to go for dessert or for some drinks and she said that she did not want to drink this week as she was drinking almost every other day.
I probed further as I knew her as someone who does not really drink and will only drink socially and she began to share the reason of why she was always drinking everyday.
Says it is because boyfriend is ugly
She mentioned that her boyfriend would always stay over at her place everyday and every time when they stayed together, the boyfriend would always want to ‘do it’ with her.
However, she does not feel like doing it with him because he is fat and ugly and because of her constant refusal, he has quarreled with her many many times.
The noise from the quarrel has woken up her family many times and to not disrupt her family’s sleep, she just decided to go ahead and let him do what he wants but because she does not like the idea of her fat and ugly bf ‘doing’ her, she would drink to get drunk so she can sleep through the process.
She went to say that she could not even go out to meet her friends because her fat and ugly bf always controls her and that she could only meet me because he was at reservist that week.
Cannot accept change
I asked her if she could not stand him anymore, why did she not just end things with him.
She told me that whenever she mentions it, he would always promise to slim down and change his bad behaviour or he would always use his life to have a ‘hold’ on her.
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