Humans are considered selfish creatures, when the girl found a better she ran off and tell the boyfriend to take a break. There is no such thing as taking a “break”. “Break means break”.
Here is the story(poor guy):
My girlfriend asked for a month break from the relationship. This is what she says, It regarding me and this relationship. I know it’s rather sudden to tell you this. I need to let you know somehow.
I used to avoid it and thinking that things will be okay back then but after i start working until now I started to think more. It’s not entirely your problem it’s mine. I felt that I’ve changed, not sure whether is it a good or a bad thing but yes.
Work is making me very tired honestly, I reply to messages here and there but it’s just very draining for me. To be honest, You’re very good to me, you showed me how much you love and support me. I can see that, but the thing is I don’t have the mental capacity to return it to you, and it’s unfair to you.
And I know you miss me a lot and wanna spend time with me every second if can whenever possible but I can’t, I want to spend time with my parents, I’ve tried but I really can’t balance it and I really can’t match up to your level of energy and love etc I feel that it’s injustice for you and I’m mentally drained.
“Let’s take a break for a month or so so that I can re-evaluate this relationship and reflect on it. it’s not your fault, it’s me I’m sorry you have to meet a girl like me…”
What should I do? Is this positive or negative? Need advice