I want to ask all the ladies, can you accept if your bf/husband subscribes to Onlyfans? What if the account is by someone you know?
Will you prefer they tell you first or you don’t want to know?
Bf subscribed to my friend’s onlyFans
I swear I didn’t mean to spot check my bf but I accidentally found out that he subscribes to the onlyfans channel of our mutual friend.
I guess I’m not shocked that my bf uses onlyfans cos I know it’s normal for guys to watch p*rn but I can’t help but be bothered that the p*rn he is watching is of someone we know and got hang out with.
Before this I already know this friend does onlyfans cos she did share with us that she started it during covid to earn money after she lost her job.
She used to be an air stewardess but cos of covid, she couldn’t fly and had to find other jobs. She say since she always like to dress up in attractive outfits, might as well make some money off it then she also don’t have to go find another job.
So I’m not shocked that this friend does onlyfans but I thought she only told the girls about it. I don’t know how my bf found her channel.
I always thought that I’m quite an open-minded gf who doesn’t mind her bf looking at other girls but then I can’t help feeling jealous and upset after I discovered this.
I tried to convince myself that he’s just trying to be a good friend and supporting her business but the more I think about it, the more uncomfortable I feel.
Scared bf turned on by her friend
I only saw one of her videos and I already cannot stop thinking about it. My bf as a guy confirmed will feel even more turned on lah! The thought of my bf being turned on by my friend really makes me very uncomfortable.
I really really want to talk to my bf about it but I don’t know how to ask him. I don’t want to sound petty or worse, make him think that I’m invading his privacy but I really don’t know how to be okay about this.
I think he can also sense my unhappiness cos we keep fighting for no reason nowadays.
Any advice on what I should do?