My boyfriend finishes in less than a minute.
I’m not kidding lol. I(f20) have been dating my boyfriend(m21) for a couple months now and it’s the most healthy relationship I’ve ever had, but our only issue is our bedroom activity.
When we do it, it’s really good but I’m often disappointed after because it’s done so quick which at first I thought was kind of cute because it meant he really liked me but after a while it’s becoming an issue.
We do play but I find I have a higher need than him and I’d love to make it more fun but I don’t because I’m afraid he will just finish lol.
We usually only get into it once a day which I normally wouldn’t mind but when it’s all over in under 5 minutes and some times 1min. I’m a bit upset because I’m also someone who struggles to come and I find myself internally getting frustrated because I love him and don’t wanna make him feel bad for something he can’t control.
We have somewhat talked about it and he said he tries to think of other things to stop him but obviously it isn’t working lol.
I try to initiate more with him but he usually won’t do it with me again for the day if we already did and I don’t want to overstep his boundaries because he isn’t an overly into it and mainly enjoys quality time together which I love but I’d just like to at least get close to finishing with him.
Does anyone have anyyy advice on lasting longer/what i should do differently?