Imagine getting lead on for a staycation with your girlfriend and not for just 1 night but 3 nights. All you get is blue blue balls.
Full Story:
I just came back from a staycation with my ex-girlfriend and man, it was the worst 3 days I spent with her. I thought of getting to know her more and hopefully rekindle our relationship as we are still close friends.
I brought card games so that things won’t be so boring and she just said it’s ok (with a very uninterested tone), before ignoring me coldly and used her phone and texted all day long makes me feel even more helpless and angry. Our interactions are quite limited throughout the 3 days and it was damn awkward so much so that I have thoughts of leaving her alone in the hotel not more than once.
I wanted to avoid the silence and awkwardness by asking her some questions, but I don’t know what to ask.As the bathroom do not have any curtains, and there is only 1 bathroom, so when she’s inside bathing, then if I want to use the toilet while she is inside right, she would refuse.
I thought of having the both of us having a hot and great shower together vanished no matter how much I plead and I am stuck outside the bathroom until she is done. We slept on 2 separate beds and I wanted to combine the 2 beds into 1 by pushing the beds together so that we can be closer.
However, any physical interactions (hand-holding, hugs etc) was refused by her and I am so tired by her.I cannot find much topics to chat with her and I am quite tired with how she treat me so coldly.
She is still very accommodating about stuff as she is fine with a lot of things, only physical stuff she minds a lot (no seeing of her nudes eg). I don’t know what she wants in our friendship to be frank.
Maybe it’s just me trying to fix things up on my part, but things would never be the same again. It’s like my idea of staycation that is supposed to be a sweet and excellent opportunity for us to know each other more very much different from reality.
If I knew things would turn out this way then I would not have book a staycation with her, which is a waste of my money.