I’m not quite sure when it started, but lately my girlfriend has developed a weird habit of wanting to have ‘relations’ with me anywhere other than our bed.
It started off small, a quickie in the living room or the kitchen, but lately she’s been getting more and more creative with her ideas.
Says its a great way to spice up our relationship, but I feel she only want to satisfy her ‘kinks’
She says it’s a great way to spice up our relationship, and while I’m not against the idea of being spontaneous and trying new things, it’s a bit strange to me.
At first, I thought it was kind of exciting and a bit daring, but now it’s becoming a bit much. We’ve had ‘relations’ in the shower, in the hall, in the car and even on her parents bed.
We could be driving halfway on the way back home and she would want to pull over at some random secluded area and do it.
We’ve done it in the middle of the night and in the early morning, and it’s getting old. I’m all for trying new things and being adventurous, but it’s starting to feel like a chore now.
My girlfriend insists that this is a great way for us to keep things fresh and exciting, and that it will make our relationship stronger.
I can understand her point of view, but I can’t help but feel like this is something she’s doing for herself and her weird kinks and not for us.
I still prefer it to be in the comfort of the bedroom
It’s not that I don’t like it, it’s just that I’d rather be able to enjoy intimacy in our bed, not in a rush or in an uncomfortable position with the possibility of getting caught by people.
I’ve tried talking to her about my concerns but she just won’t listen. She keeps insisting that this is a great way to keep things interesting and that it’s all in good fun.
I understand where she’s coming from, but I can’t help but feel like we will get caught and in trouble some day and it would be embarrassing.
It’s not that I don’t want to do this, it’s just that I feel like there should be a limit. I’m all for trying new things, but sometimes it feels like she’s just trying to see how far she can push me.
I’d much rather be able to make love in our bed and enjoy it in a comfortable and familiar environment.
I understand why she wants to do this, but I think it’s important to draw a line between what is fun and what is too much. I want our relationship to be strong, but I don’t want it to be a chore.
I want us to be able to enjoy each other’s company, not just find new and creative ways to have ‘relations’.