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GF HELPED BF PAY HIS BUSINESS DEBTS, END UP THEY NO MONEY FOR WEDDING

I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We had plans of getting married but I never thought it would end this way.

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My boyfriend’s business ventures failed, I had to work a few jobs to help with his debts

It all started when my boyfriend’s business ventures failed and he was left with no money to pay his debts. I decided to take up multiple jobs to help him out.

I worked all night shifts, took up tutoring jobs and even started selling whatever I could to make the extra bucks to help him. I was determined to help him pay off his debts and make sure that he could get back on his feet.

But then things started to get worse. No matter how hard I worked, the money I earned was never enough to cover the cost of his debts. I had to take out loans and borrow money from friends just to make sure that he could pay his bills.

Realised that we had no money for our wedding, called if off and broke up after

After months of struggling, I realized that we had no money left for the wedding. I was devastated, I had worked so hard and sacrificed so much of my time to help my boyfriend, but it had all been for nothing.

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We had no money left to even plan a wedding.

My boyfriend was also feeling the pressure of not being able to provide for us. He felt guilty that I had to take up multiple jobs just to help him out. He started to withdraw from me as he felt like a failure.

I tried to remain optimistic and told him that everything would be alright. I tried to encourage him to start looking for new business ventures again, but he did not want to put himself out there again.

He was too scared of failing and disappointing me again.

So, we ended up not getting married. We stayed together for some time, but soon after our relationship started to deteriorate. We just could not make it work anymore.

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I still think about what could have been if we had just saved up enough money for the wedding.

I learned the hard way that sometimes, no matter how hard you try, things just don’t work out.

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