I have been with my boyfriend for four years now, and while I love him deeply, there’s one thing I can’t seem to get past.
He insists on wearing low-cut pants until the base of his bird is almost exposed. At first, I didn’t think it was a big deal, but it’s starting to become a real issue.
It was later I found out that he is taunting me as I always wear low cut dresses and he has been trying to get me to cover up. I told her it’s my right and now he is doing the same to prove his point.
I understand that fashion is important, and that people should be allowed to express themselves through the clothes they wear. But I draw the line when it comes to my boyfriend’s pants. They’re not just low-cut, they’re practically falling off!
I’d rather he keep his pants up and show some respect for himself and for me.
When I first brought up the subject, he just laughed it off and told me to change my dress.
He said that he’s just trying to stay on trend just like me and that it’s not a big deal. But I can’t help but feel uncomfortable when I’m out in public with him, and I know that other people are looking and judging us.
It doesn’t help that he refuses to take my opinion seriously. Every time I bring up the subject, he just dismisses my concerns and tells me that I’m overreacting. He doesn’t understand why I’m so upset, and he doesn’t seem to care that his clothing choices are making me uncomfortable.
I’ve tried talking to him about it, but he just gets defensive and won’t budge. He says that it’s his body and he can do what he wants with it.
He is literally using the words I told him and telling me back.
I don’t want to be embarrassed when we go out together, and I don’t want other people to think I’m okay with this.
I’m at the end of my rope here. I love my boyfriend and I want to make our relationship work, but I’m not sure how to handle this situation. I don’t want to come off as controlling neither do I want to be controlled, but I also don’t want him to continue wearing pants that are so low-cut.
I’m not sure what to do next.