My gf calls me ugly and other names and told me it was her love language and how she shows affection.
She told me it was for fun and that she doesnt really mean it but at the same time it really hurts my feelings. We have been together for more than a year now.
I told her to stop calling me names but she insisted in saying that its no fun if she doesnt do so plus telling me that the rs is already not fun at all.
Its kinda demotivating me at times at work and the fact that i always feel down when we met and she started calling me names.
Whenever we fight or had an argument, she would always swear and call me even more worse names like cnt and saying im childish etc.
Me being the nicer person wouldnt even dare to swear at her cause i know how sensitive she will be if i do so. What should i do?
She mentions last time that she used to have a certain mental illness and that swearing and cussing me is because she is afraid of losing me and wants to get assurance for herself in case that happens.
Me being nice stayed with her till now. Idk if i should break up(90% of me thinking i should) or have a talk with her again.
She isnt the apologetic kinda person too unless she thinks she means it. She calls me hypocrite as well and said that i kept accusing her while she is the one that id at fault. She just doesnt want to accept her mistakes 🙁
Netizens’ comments
- Drop her. So many red flags. Mutual respect is one of the key foundations for a happy relationship. She sounds like a narcissistic bully who will grow old into a Karen.
- Dump the toxic b-h. And remember to call her that to her face before you do so she knows how you’ve been feeling.
- This is not a relationship and not about boring or love language she is getting a kick out of hurting you on purpose. Drop that red flag