My boyfriend suggested me to join him and his family on a 2d1n Batam trip to celebrate Mother’s Day. I casually agreed cause i’m available and free on that day too.
Upon buying the ticket, I asked him if we can go for a 1h message. Which he deny as he say we can only do stuff the mum wants to do as this is a celebration for her. Thus we should not do our own things.
Then i proceed to ask if late at night, when everyone is asleep can we at least spend some couple time, which he also deny. Cause he say he don’t want his family seeing or hearing us.
I kind of regret agreeing to go cause he say this trip should be a bonding trip with his family. So now im wondering who is his mother?
Cause it sounds like my 2d1n gotta revolve around this ‘queen’ -.-
Here are what netizens think:
- Opportunity for you to see how is his relationship with his parent and family. Then you can decide better if you want to proceed with him. His relationship with his family will show how would you be living with, your future in-laws, if you are taking the next steps… Otherwise the exposure will show you your next major decision.
- He already said is celebration for his mother. And mother’s day somemore. You using the wordings like ” revolving around the queen” to insult his mother, sounds like you are the petty and future creating rifts n problems that kinda daughter in law. Yuks. I never teach my daughters all these. I always remind my daughter to respect the other half mummy. No need get jealous over such small issues, be big heart n generous. His mother brought him up since baby, you no need to whine over such small stuff n making things difficult for your bf right? Good luck to him if he marries you.
- You are a guest on your boyfriend’s family vacation. Play by their rules or opt out. You have a choice and the rest of the year to spend couple time. Exercise a bit of EQ here if leaving a good impression is your goal.