Should I [M28] get back with my GF [F29] of 1.5 years after she broke up with me over some instagram drama?
My GF of 1.5 years broke up with me two weeks ago over some instagram model accounts. For the first time ever, she brought up the fact that I follow some IG models and it really bothered her.
So without giving me a chance to respond to her concerns, she said that she’s already made up her mind about breaking up with me.
I respected her choice and told her that if she’s already made up her mind, then I’d respect it and will try to keep our communication to the minimum to make it possible for both of us to move forward.
After some crying she said her goodbyes and left. In my own defense however I add here, I’m a photographer and most of the models that I follow on IG are either clients or for inspiration.
Also, I’ve always been transparent about my intent and she’s been nothing but supportive in the past. Now after a year and half I’m being put on spot without having a chance to engage in a conversation, which tells me there might just be something else that’s up!
I’m speculating about that, I don’t know for a fact. I do know that she’s always had her dating apps installed on her phone, even while being in a committed relationship with me!
Anyways… Two weeks later after our breakup I get a message saying she misses me. But given that I know she didn’t waste time flushing everything down the drain, I didn’t reply anymore.
Now I don’t know how to feel anymore. My policy is rather strict on no contact rule after a break up that’s why she’s been blocked on all platforms except for email (that’s because I owe her money and I wanted her to have a way of communicating the exact amount with me).
Now I need to know what you think about my course of actions here? Am I judging her actions too harshly? I think she’s made it clear that she’s regretting this whole thing by now, and that she still loves me.
But I don’t know if she’s the right life partner for me anymore after what conspired. I felt like that I must be pretty insignificant to be dumped that easy after a year and half. I don’t know, what do you think?
Thanks in advance!