My girlfriend keeps comparing me and talks a lot about guys she’s been with. And it’s making me worry.
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My girlfriend often talks about guys she’s had sexual relationships with. I don’t care about that stuff but it makes me feel like she hasn’t gotten over them.
It makes me doubt myself and insecure. Am I making her happy? Am I too boring? She also tends to compare me to those men.
She compares our “bed sessions” to ones she’s had with others. It’s a real turnoff. I usually get really snappy at her when she talks about any guy.
Even the ones that are just her friends. Because I feel like I can’t trust her if she keeps on doing this?
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What can I do to cope with this?
Netizens’ comments
- Tell her to stop and tell her how it makes you feel.
Or dump her
Or, and this one is for the chaos, compare her to other girls when she does anything.
- You shouldn’t ‘cope’ with this. I have never, nor have I even thought about comparing a partner with anyone, especially comparing them in the bedroom to exes.
- Leave her. Simple enough. There are things you should never put up with from a girlfriend. This is one of them. She’s cutting down yourself esteem and self worth trying to make you feel jealous. Just no. Be prepared for her to complain about how “insecure” you are to her friends.