I am in a rather new relationship , just a couple of months in , but we are often get into arguments almost every week. I think the issue is that i’m a more laid back person and my partner is super sensitive.
Our arguments always stem from my partner being angry at me for doing something wrong. Examples include like not saying goodnight, lack of emojis in our texts, all in all things that i have never thought would be a big deal. Worst thing is that when my partner gets angry , my partner would go silent on me for a couple of days without resolving the problem , and those few days are very agonizing for me.
I feel like i often refrain from expressing myself freely in hopes to not accidentally offend my partner , my friends and family mentioned that my partner might be on the more childish side, but my partner is older than me.
We are currently in the midst of an argument now and the silence from my partner is making me suffer.
What should i do ?
Here are what netizens think:
- Run! Run as far away as you can!
- Stay and hold on, this is good level of toxicity.. If you quit someone else has to carry the burden. Hold on till you change, hold till you get addicted to the toxicity, what doesn’t kill you changes you.. Serve your new master forever… good goooooooood Gooooooooooooooood!!!
- Dating phase like this, imagine getting married. What a painful way to live. Love is not so torturous one when you’re with the right person. You don’t need to be told what to do, you know exactly what can be done. Either change how you 2 argue, or change partner. And age got nothing to do with wisdom.
- i just think u need a partner who lets you know what they need. although it’s a mood kill. however, sometimes you know what the other party wants even without asking. that’s when u know it’s meant to be. it’s probably something that only happens in movies but after a few relationships…u might actually meet your soul mate, who knows