I never thought I’d be here, writing this story – but I guess life throws us curveballs sometimes. This is the story of how I left my boyfriend of three years for a foreign guy who had a bigger “banana.”
It all started when I was scrolling through Instagram when I came across a post from a friend of a friend. She had just gone on vacation to another country and posted a picture of a guy she had met there. His name was Carlos and he was cute.
We started messaging and getting to know each other, and I found out he was from Brazil.
I was intrigued by the idea of dating someone from another country and thought it would be an interesting experience. I told my boyfriend at the time, but he was less than enthusiastic about it. He was never really one to be open to new experiences, so I didn’t think too much of it.
But as Carlos and I kept talking, I found myself becoming more and more attracted to him. He was so different from anyone I’d ever met before. He had a laid-back attitude and an adventurous spirit that I found incredibly attractive.
One day, Carlos sent me a picture of himself in the shower, and I couldn’t believe what I saw. His “banana” was huge! I knew then and there that I had to be with him.
I broke up with my boyfriend and flew to Brazil to be with Carlos. It was the best decision I ever made. We had an amazing time together, exploring the country and learning about each other’s cultures. We even got to experience Carnival together, which was an experience I’ll never forget.
I’m now back in the SG and Carlos and I are still together. We talk every day and make plans to visit each other as often as possible.
I’m so happy that I made the decision to take a chance on something new and follow my heart. I’m glad I didn’t let my fear of the unknown hold me back.
Of course, there were a lot of people who judged me for leaving my boyfriend for someone with a bigger “banana.” But I didn’t care. I knew what I wanted, and I went after it. I’m so glad I did, because it has led me to an amazing relationship and a life full of adventure.