I’m tired. Really tired. I’ve been working part time for the past few years, and while it’s great that I’m able to make a living this way, it’s also exhausting. I’m always exhausted, and it’s taking a toll on me.
But that’s not the only thing that’s exhausting. My girlfriend won’t leave me alone. She’s rich, and she’s never had to work a day in her life. She insists that I have to go out with her on the weekends, despite the fact that I’m tired from working all week. She just doesn’t get why I’m not spending time with her, and she’s driving me crazy.
I know she loves me, and I love her too. But I just need some space. I need to be able to come home from work and relax without her constantly pressuring me to go out and do things with her. I know she means well, but it’s just too much for me.
At first, I tried to be understanding. I thought maybe she was just trying to make me happy and show me a good time. But then it got to the point where she was constantly calling and texting me, asking me to do things with her. She was always making plans for us and expecting me to drop everything and go out with her.
She started to cry and said that I don’t love her anymore.
The thing is money don’t grow on trees!!!!!
MY GF WON’T LEAVE ME ALONE, I AM TIRED FROM WORKING PART TIME AND SHE INSIST THAT I HAVE TO GO OUT WITH HER ON THE WEEKENDS, SHE IS RICH AND HAS NEVER WORKED BEFORE HER WHOLE LIFE AND SHE DOES NOT UNDERSTAND WHY I AM NOT SPENDING TIME WITH HER
It got to be too much. I had to take a step back and tell her that I needed some time for myself. I explained that I was exhausted from work and just needed some time to relax and recharge.
At first, she didn’t understand. She thought I was being selfish and didn’t want to spend time with her. But then I explained that it wasn’t about that—it was about self-care and taking care of myself. I explained that if I was going to be able to spend quality time with her, I needed to take care of myself first.