Recently a post is going viral on Facebook whereby, a guy is asking for suggestions in regards to continue his relationship or ditch her.
In his post, he said that whenever they quarrel, there is only right on his girlfriend’s side and she will never admit that she is at fault.
Whenever the guy tells his girlfriend about her shortcomings, she will insist that she is the opposite of it.
Here is his full story,
“What to do with a gf with a massive ego and horrendous temper but thinks she has a small ego and a sweet temper?”
“During her irrational fits of rage, she will say the most shockingly hurtful things or even make up lies. Personally I don’t even understand the amount of evil creative energy needed to come up with all of this?!”
“The worse part is even pointing out she made a mistake is enough to trigger these bouts which can even last three days. Her anger is irrational and almost always disproportionate. Completely unbelievable if I tell anyone.”
“On the ego part, she will never ever say sorry or admit she is in the wrong. In our 2 year relationship, these have happened exactly 0 times. Since no one is completely perfect, something must be wrong.”
“To make things even worse, when fighting, she will not say constructive things. Each of her lines is designed to put me down. Even if she asks me any questions, she will cut me off the moment I start responding by either shouting over me, walking away or hanging up on me. Some more if I ever reach out first even if she is in the wrong, she will never compromise and reach back out. She will punish me and make my life hell for days and expect me to apologise and make it up to her and say she did nothing wrong at all before the fight can end.”
“She is also not beyond doing this in public and create a scene. When I ask her to stop because everyone is staring at us, she will mock me and say I thought you are a confident guy? Wah now you care what other people think of you also ah? Not so confident liao horh. ”
“Then she tells me she has an amazing temper and a tiny ego but I have a bad temper and a huge ego. Her reason? Supposedly I have a bad temper because I get frustrated when she ignores my pleas to stop to yell vulgarities at me. Supposedly I have a huge ego because I am proud of the fact that I did well in school and am doing well at work. Somehow she left out the fact that over 2 years, I swallow my pride and take care of her despite her tantrums and hurtful words.”
“When she is in a good mood, she is fun to be around. But she gets triggered all the time. Three small fight a day and one big fight every 2 weeks seems to be the case for us.”
“I’m really exhausted but want to give this one last shot. Tips, people?”