My (24M) gf (23F) has been getting more male attention lately, do I have anything to worry about?
We’ve been together for 2 years, she recently had a “glow up” and lost some weight through the gym. She’s been dressing in different clothes and doing her hair and makeup more often.
She used to never wear those type of clothes. I didn’t have an issue with it, I loved her confidence and she was really happy and proud. I’d always compliment her and tell her she looks beautiful.
With the gym, she made some new friends. Again, I encouraged her to be social and make friends. She used to be very shy and had trouble making friends. Her new friends go out a lot, which she never did before. She was a complete homebody.
Now that she’s going out, she’s getting attention, and it makes me really nervous sometimes. She gets excited about it and tells me about it.
Truthfully she’s out of my league now, she always was but it’s very apparent now, and it just makes me worried. I showed a pic of us to a coworker and he thought I was joking when I said she was my girlfriend.
Guys look at her and say things even in front of me, even if she is wearing normal clothes. Like some guy randomly yelled that she’s beautiful yesterday and she was wearing sweats, somehow that’s more annoying than a remark.
We had a fight about it once and I got upset, because her getting excited seems like she wants other guys attention. She said that she never got complimented in the past because she was ugly and now she feels liked.
I just feel like we’re going to end soon and she’ll dump me to find someone better than me.