I (22M) am in trouble with my gf (21F) because I told her she was nagging me in my dreams
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Pretty much the title. I had a really funny dream where myself and a couple of my mates were riding around Tokyo on toy tricycles trying to deliver food, whilst I was being nagged by my girlfriend for frivolous things that I can’t even recall.
When I woke up I said I had a funny dream and told her about it, she asked if she was in the dream and I sleepily replied “yeah, but you were kind of just nagging me the whole time”.
Well now she’s been nagging me all day in real life and currently is refusing to talk to me. I can’t tell if maybe I’m being insensitive? Or maybe she’s overreacting? Idk I’m just really confused…
Netizens’ comments
- She is being unrealistic , but you weren’t being very kind to her either. You can’t control your dreams, but you can control what you tell her.
It sounds like you told her you had a bunch of fun with your favorite people and that she was not one of those people and fun. You probably need to reevaluate your use of the word “nagging” you could have said she was trying to help you and come off a lot better. Even now, is she actually nagging you, or is she expressing her feelings? - She sounds like the type of person to actually get mad at you in real life because you cheated on her in a dream.