How will you talk to your partner if you realised that he is following multiple IG accounts that is filled with hot-looking ladies?
I was scrolling through my partner’s Instagram account, admiring the photos he had posted, when I noticed something strange. My partner was following multiple accounts of hot-looking ladies. I was shocked and taken aback. I felt betrayed, as if he was doing something behind my back.
I felt so confused and hurt. I wanted to confront him about what I had seen, but I wasn’t sure how to go about it. I knew it was important to talk to him about it, but I wasn’t sure how to bring it up. After all, I didn’t want to make him feel attacked or like he had done something wrong.
Here are what netizens think:
- Sometimes I prefer face to face but nowadays abit lazy to go out so virtually suit me better
- Show him yours also. Tell him it gonna get more if he don’t stop. But hope your account are as sassy as those in his account.
- 个人自由嘛…… he can follow whatever he wants to see or interested in… just like you can chase whatever k-drama or k-pop singers…. Give each other some personal space or else this relationship won’t go long… Just see this as his hobby – you don’t need to “approve” it or “encourage” it… just let it be… And if this bothers you, you got some growing-up to do on your own… Last time, when there is no IG no FB, you think men don’t look at magazine that has hot girls…? You can’t control what his mind think too… So in this case, just let him be… 你要有这个容量… if it really bothers you, either you do not look at his phone/IG anymore or you start focus on yourself- be fit, be pretty, be healthy, be hot… once you become more and more confident on yourself, you won’t even care what or who he follows on IG…
- Be more worried when it’s all hot muscle guys