My girlfriend’s inability to accept wrongdoing is making me lose feelings
My girlfriend [26] and I [27] have been together for almost a year. She’s a great girl – smart, good sense of humour and good looking. Everything was great in the beginning of the relationship until we started to have disagreements. I have a huge issue with the fact that, even when clearly she’s wrong or at fault, she never admits it. She always tries to defend herself with some excuse and sometimes shifts the blame to me somehow.
Whenever I pointed it out in the past, she always used to say “you always say that, it makes no sense! Why would i do that?” But a few weeks ago, I told her that we need to reevaluate our relationship because we are having more disagreements than normal conversations. At this point, she basically admitted that she likes to defend herself and she’ll do her best to listen to me more and try and be less defensive. A few days later, we have an argument where she is clearly, 100% wrong and won’t admit it. It was so disillusioning to see that nothing has changed despite me telling her what’s bothering me. It feels like I’m not heard in the discussion, all she’s trying to do is absolve her from any wrongdoing by giving the most preposterous reasons for her words/actions.
This is highly frustrating and I’m finding myself more annoyed and not wanting to see her because of this. It has come to a point where her quirks, which i used to find cute, are now an annoyance and cringey at times.
Am I exaggerating or should I end the relationship due to me feeling like there’s no spark anymore?
TL;DR: My girlfriend’s unwillingness to accept any blame for her actions is making me lose feelings for her
EDIT: When i say blame, i mean accountability. It was a poor choice of word on my par