My gf told me last night that the most recent guy she dated had the biggest D she’s ever seen and I don’t know how to handle it. Solutions?
My gf told me last night that the most recent guy she dated had the biggest D she’s ever seen and I don’t know how to handle it.
When we first started dating, I’ve asked her not to tell me anything about her past history with her exes because I’m a very visual/auditory guy and my mind creates mini movies about anything anyone tells me.
I’ve been very good to her overall, and I haven’t done anything to piss her off to the point where she would want to hurt me with her words.
I am about 14cm and maybe 14.7cm on a good day which I know is not ideal for most girls and it’s been an insecurity for me my entire life.
She’s said she was sorry and I forgive her but I literally cannot stop playing this nightmare in my brain where her ex is giving her what she craves and it makes me so sad knowing I’d never be able to offer her the same.
She tried to make up for it saying she’s had the best time ever with me but now I find it hard to believe.
Anyone have a solution for this? We love each other and we don’t want this to break us apart but I’m not sure if I would ever feel adequate every time we sleep together from this point on.
And this is something I feel like I can’t even discuss with my therapist because I’m so humiliated and embarrassed. Anyone have a solution for this?
Netizens’ comments
- A lot of people are here just telling you to stop being self conscious and completely ignoring the fact that your gf crossed a boundary by bringing that up in the first place. How did this conversation start? Did you ask a question about it or did she just drop that on you?
- Tell her the last girl you were with was the tightest down there that you ever had, see how she responds to it.
- This will always be in the back of your mind until you find a way to deal with it on your own. Either you’ll learn to live with it, or you won’t and move on. I would decide quickly as to not waste any more of either of y’all’s time if you can’t. Everyone has a past. And it was pretty shitty of her mentioning it after you had expressed you didn’t want to know. But these are the cards you’ve been dealt