I’m a 26F and my 27M boyfriend of 6 months is addicted to “videos online”. He told me he PCC to P at least 2 times a week.
We’re physically intimate and monogamous, so I feel sad knowing I’m not enough to satisfy his urges. Furthermore, he told me that in the past he had visited a massage parlour once though he swears it was and is going to be that once only.
I’m worried that his habit will worsen and he may potentially cheat on me in future or visit a massage parlour again. We talked about it and he told me he’s taking steps to stop the P habit and assured me it was the only challenge, with the other two concerns under control.
I trust him and see a future with him, but I’m worried that his lack of self control may turn around to bite me in the future, such that whenever he goes out alone I can’t help but worry that he may visit a parlour or cheat on me. Am I overreacting or is this a legitimate concern?
Here are what netizens think:
- Your concerns are valid, and it’s understandable that you’re feeling uneasy about your boyfriend’s habits. Open communication is crucial in a relationship, and it’s positive that you’ve already discussed these concerns with him.
- self release is a common activity no matter what age and status. 16 to 85 will still watch and self release. Even if they are single or married or with kids. It’s only an addiction if it affects your mental state and have bad withdrawal symptoms. For the rest of us it helps sleep better and reduce tension. And boys, you want to confess your exciting history good for you. I can only tell you be smarter.
- What proof does he have to indicate he is reducing his addiction? Your biggest fear is cheating. Not watchingÂ
- You both are physically intimate? This is an easy problem to solve. Go on a one week holiday with him and get him off 4-5 times a day without P. I hope he lasts beyond two days. Too much of anything is not fun.