Dilemma. Huge one. My boyfriend of two years has decided to be a Chef.
Initially, i was ok until my parents commented that it’s a dirty hands job done by certain people only.
To me personally, a restaurant manager is still ok but being a cook is low-class job Done by “some people” only. I tried to convince myself bf because he has a degree why should he do that kind of job?
But all those pleas fell on dead ears. I feel like I need to save my parent’s faces too. And with that kind of manual labour job, i can forget about having a posh wedding.
Whenever my friends asked me what kind of profession he is in, I would just lie and say that he is doing some business startup, with no concrete plans yet.
Any advice?
Here are what netizens think:
I hope you become so poor and go sweep the streets, he should break up with you.
You are the most trashiest kind of girl in Singapore.
You don’t deserve him. He has one of the most noble careers, and you actually think its low class. You and your family are no class. I hope your house catches fire. I hope he has to be the one to save your ungrateful family. N I hope when you realise how immature you are, he will walk away even if you beg him a million times to take you back.
I’ve never snorted this loudly before. One of the dumbest thing I’ve read honestly.
To begin with, u r not in the league for posh weddings because your lexicon indicates your working class roots. There is no shame in a job well done. I think it is best you guys evaluate your relationship since you obviously cannot fulfill the “for worst, in sickness” part of the vows. Good luck to saving face.