Should I 21m leave my gf 19f for trying to get pregnant behind my back?
So for context, our relationship is pretty new, but I’ve known her for about a year. I know her ups and downs and some of the not so bright sides of her but we’ve been dating for about 4 months and we’ve been intimate for about three.
I’m a very cautious person and I always wear a condom so whenever I do something with her, I always use condoms. She provides them, and I always make sure there are no holes in it as I put them on myself and usually I would dispose of them myself as well.
The most recent time I slept with my gf, she told me that she wanted to flush the condom, saying that the last time it clogged the toilet because I didn’t wrap it in tissue. So I let her, and she asked for privacy saying she needed to use the restroom so I left.
Later that night, I looked through her phone and I saw her texting her best friend telling her that she’d turned the condom inside out and put it inside of her, in hopes of getting pregnant. I am super upset, and she knows I don’t want any kids. I don’t know what to do. Advice??
Netizens’ comments
- Well first off, never flush condoms down the toilet whether they’re wrapped up or not! Put them in the garbage.
But also, I would definitely never in a million years stay with someone who tried to baby trap me. Not a chance in hell.- (OP) It happened 2 days ago and I haven’t said anything to her about it yet, I’ve been distant with her and don’t know how to approach the situation but I’m also super worried she could be pregnant. Is it possible she could be pregnant from turning the condom inside out? I am super paranoid right now
- It is possible she could get pregnant from that, yes. I hope you never sleep with this woman ever again.
- (OP) It happened 2 days ago and I haven’t said anything to her about it yet, I’ve been distant with her and don’t know how to approach the situation but I’m also super worried she could be pregnant. Is it possible she could be pregnant from turning the condom inside out? I am super paranoid right now
- Before you break up –
Get a picture of the text she sent, because if she actually does get pregnant you’ll be able to protect yourself
I’d photograph it from your phone as well as screenshotting it and texting it to you from her phone (and then deleting the sent message of course)