I’m sick & my bf doesn’t give a damn. I told him on the phone I had a really bad headache, felt dizzy & nauseous too, he just continued playing his games & hung up. Called me back an hour later just to say I messed up his concentration & made him lose. Didn’t even ask how I was doing or if I needed help going to the doctor.
I stay alone & need food but I don’t usually use any food delivery apps, so I called him again to help me order something. He asked me to download it & order myself because he was in game & ended my call. I never knew you could be like this. Maybe I was too easy for you.
How funny life is. Back then it was my ex who treated me this way & you were the one who would accompany me to the doctor & buy me porridge.
I feel really stupid to even ask yall if this is a red flag. I’m feeling better now with all the medicine & ramen than when I was ever with you. Maybe I should really leave you & be independent myself again. Why do I even attract guys like You. Bye.
Netizens’ commetns
- To be honest, I think both of you are at fault.
He is at fault because he neglected you for his games, which is an absolute no for me. No matter how busy, you should make time to see your partner and try to help out as much as possible. Doesn’t look like he is putting effort in anymore.
You are also very needy in my opinion. Yes, you may be sick but if you can’t figure out how to use an app, then at least try and google it. Stop depending on your partner to do it for you. Learn how to use it. You are too dependent on him which is a no for me too.
The chase is over. When you find someone else, you are going to feel the exact same thing but when the chase is over, that’s when you know if he is the one for you. - I feel that he could have been nicer and more caring towards you as you’re feeling unwell. From my experience, when guys are playing games it can be pretty hard for them to stop halfway as it’s usually team-based unless there’s a very urgent and pressing issue. If you were to ask me, I would feel that he was probably thinking that your condition wasn’t that serious, hence the decided to focus on his game. Maybe if you were to let him know that you’re really feeling horribly sick and seriously in need of him, I’m sure that he will act differently. If he doesn’t, it’s definitely a red flag.
- Same here but im more independent. Hes jz comfortable w me, i duno why im still sticking around w him. Game is everything to him. He upgraded his comp, bought a secret lab chair and a tv and soundbar for himself but he will never spend so much money on me. Kinda fed up.
- Girls prefer someone to talk to them when they are feeling troubled, whereas boys prefer someone to leave them alone.
As for why he wants you to download the app, he doesn’t know what is your food preference