A guy shared a story about his girlfriend coming to him to confess that her ex-boyfriend and herself used to record themselves getting it on and ever since they have broken up, the ex-boyfriend still keeps them in his phone.
As a result, it made the guy insecure about his relationship with her.
Here is the story
“My gf told me that her ex made multiple films both of them in action when they were still together, and that he still has these on his phone.
I have previously met her ex and to say the least he and I do not get along, having almost fought each other many times.
I could never understand why my girlfriend dated him in the first place, as he abusive and relies on gambling to make money and owes a lot of money to his friends and keeps dragging when it is time to return.
Basically a good for nothing.
When I first started dating her he threatened to find me and fight me and make my life a living hell.
I was fine putting up his threats and insults but however I recently became aware of some of the things he and my girlfriend used to do, the most hurting one being they used to make films and he still has them in his gallery.
Since becoming aware of this it has been eating away at me, I have never been an insecure person however knowing that she did this has made me see her in a different light, and my impression of her totally changed.
Perhaps this is because I have never done anything like that, but the thought of these tapes existing between her and the piece of trash she used to date is completely bothering me.
I hate this feeling, I cannot tell whether it is jealousy, disgust or just insecurity and I do not know how to overcome it.
Is there a way to overcome these thoughts/feelings, or should I break up with her for my and her own goods before we continue with the relationship for too long?”
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