My gf had S with other people during the talking phase of our relationship and it bothers me.
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People say “the talking phase does not mean exclusivity” but that does not mean it doesn’t hurt :/
It hurts more knowing that she liked me but didn’t want to say anything because she was too shy/nervous but wasn’t nervous enough to go f a guy she knew was only using her for piak piak. She did this for months while talking to me.
I also recently found out she blew some guy who slid in her DMs the night after she told me that she liked me. This really sucks for me, but there’s nothing I can do about it now.
Here are what netizens think:
- If it bothers you that much, either get over it or break up with her. If you cant get over it but dont break up, you’ll resent her and never be confident in your relationship. You’ll hold it against her and it’ll mess you up emotionally.
- Yeah I get it, there is nothing worse than feeling swoony and romantic for someone, thinking things may be special and then finding out you were just one of many. Some will say be happy you made the cut but it can mess with you and cause resentment. There is literally nothing you can do though other than communicate this and if you can’t get over it, leave before resentment sets in.
- Yeah it’s clearly a difference in excitement for the developing relationship. When I met my wife, she was instantly all I thought about, and I would have certainly been hurt if she didn’t feel the same. I mean, she didn’t do anything wrong wrong, but sometimes just bring ourselves hurts others unintentionally.