Am I an overly sensitive girlfriend?
My bf went out with a close female friend last week. They are close friends who meet up once every 6 months to catch up. While i would actually be ok with him meeting with a friend of the opposite gender 1-to-1, he shared some details with me which made me feel uncomfortable.
Prior to meeting my bf, he had a crush on this girl for 2-3 years during sec/jc days and went on a few dates with her during the beginning of their uni days although there weren’t any romantic sparks between them eventually.
The girl also knew about his repeated interest in her but they continued remaining as good friends.
As for their catch-ups, although he tends to reassure me that it will be a fast meal and catchup session, it often took ~5hrs and he will drive her home after the date as it is on the way.
I don’t want to be overly sensitive about this but he rarely drives his friends home and usually, it is only to the nearest mrt station but for this female friend, he would go all the way out to drive her home. Once when he asked me, I mentioned that i would prefer if he did not send her home, but he got defensive and say its his duty to ensure she got home safely at night and since its on the way, he dont see a reason not to.
Furthermore, he never invites me over to have a meal with her before as he mentioned that they only meet up once every 6 months and he would like to spend the time alone catching up with her instead.
Recently he is very busy with his school projects and we have been meeting up lesser. However, he still took the effort to reach out to his female friend and ask for a meetup while cutting short our dating hours and days. During the entire 5+ hours dinner with her, he left my messages on hold and replied only after he returned home.
My gut feeling tells me that he is still interested in the girl but im afraid im just being overly sensitive. Appreciate some opinions…