Hi everybody, I don’t really know if I’m the asshole in this situation.
I’m (22f) in a 3 month relationship with a guy (24m) who is literally perfect for me. We have incredible chemistry, he is polite, gentle and a great person all around. Helps me whenever I need anything.
This year he has a specific type of job, where he is away from home for 6 months and works there. The rest of the year he is completely free. He makes enough money to last him through the year. He has his own rental flat and does chores around it without a problem.
However, I still don’t feel very good about him literally doing for 6 months straight. He wakes up at 1pm, makes himself something to eat and plays video games or watches youtube for the rest of the day. He refuses to go back to uni (he dropped out a few years ago). He sometimes tries to get some sort of short-term job while here but ends up giving up on it, because “the boss is rude” or something similar.
On the other hand, I go to university and make money. I really work hard hoping to have a nice future. I don’t need him to make some crazy amount of money, but I’m becoming really concerned about his lack of general activity in these 6 months while he’s here.
Am I overreacting? I really hope I am. I don’t want to lose him…