Help I (20 M) think my girlfriend (20 F) is crazy after 1 year of dating
At first I (20 M) thought her (20 F) little obsession with me was cute but then it went too far. She does stuff that kinda scares me like waking up early to watch me sleep and tracking my location constantly while I’m at work or when I go anywhere else.
She always cries when I hang out with my friends for the night as it can go late. I love her and she doesn’t seem to understand I need time for myself.
She is constantly asking for me to be around her all the time. She has everything planned for the future with us. She always gets jealous even when I’m talking with a cashier or about a 2d anime girl.
I love her very much and I don’t know what to make of this situation and the feelings she is having. Should I talk to her about this or not bring it up. Well I do like it however it may not be health
The situation isn’t healthy at all, but calling her crazy just shows immaturity.
Sounds like she has attachment and abandonment issues which she really needs to address and you shouldn’t continue being a crutch for her, try talking to her first and see how the first step goes.
I would recommend starting with couples therapy which should hopefully lead to her getting her own therapy to break down the reasons why she is so scared to be alone.
It’s definitely a mental health issue that she needs help with.
But please don’t use the word crazy, it’s a derogatory term used to vilify someone with mental health struggles. You wouldn’t use a derogatory term to describe someone with a physical chronic illness.