Girlfriends brother is weirdly close to her
She always talked about how he gives her the best massages, rubs her temples, everytime he hears her have a facetime with me he comes into the room and completely excludes me from the conversation for over an hour sometimes.
she has him rate all of her outfits, he buys her very revealing expensive dresses, he knew we planned on moving in together and he only suggested that they do the same after she told him.
he tells her how she’s going to go on month long trips out of country with him even when she says she’s not interested.
Idk if I’m just thinking I’m in the twilight zone, or if this is just normal lol.
Straight up feel like a complete 3rd wheel whenever we are all together, have never met anyone that treats their siblings like this.
probably overthinking it, but God damn does it ever weird me tf out.
- Some siblings form trauma bonds due to traumatic experience they had to go through together , which makes them closer to each other. I wonder if this is their situation. There might be a root cause to their closeness, I would dig deeper. If you find nothing, then you should start worrying
- It kind of sounds like they are close and he is protective of her in a weird way. I’d find a way to talk to her about it in a way that doesn’t get her defensive