How to overcome the problem of my girlfriend’s really tight lady parts.
I’m currently dating this girl and we tried to have intercourse a couple times. problem is, she’s too tight for me. I’m not a particularly gifted guy, I’d say I’m average size if not a bit less.
But when I try to get inside her, I just can’t manage to slip it in even with lubricant. Obviously I use a condom, but I don’t know if that can interfere.
We’ve tried different positions but none worked and I feel pretty bad, not because we can’t do it but because I don’t want her to feel guilty for that.
Since she didn’t have any experiences before me, she can’t really come up with a solution and neither can I, since I’ve never experienced this problem before. What are some ways to overcome this problem?
EDIT: I’m 23 and she’s 21. We do do foreplay and it has no problems. The issue comes exclusively with proper penetration.
- Try with something small. Just your finger ( singular) first. It should be slow. Then once its in, try moving it back and forth. Make sure nails and well trimmed short and finger is clean.
Go at her comfortable pace. Ask her to relax her pelvis. Make her comfortable and be patient.
- She needs to see gynecologist
- I agree with seeing Gyno. Mainly because… yes you may be able to work yourself in but you just want to make sure you don’t cause any permanent damage. There are some stretches that women do when they are preparing for labor, with olive oil and fingers. Just lightly stretching the opening daily. To prevent tearing. But I’m not sure if that would apply here or not. Really better to talk to a professional.
- Second that she needs to see her gyn. She may have vaginismus.