I used to despise fboys and thought that they have a very selfish perspective on relationships, treating women as trophies. However, I made friends with a fboy and came to know more about their thinking. Initially, I had a bad impression of him because he would often brag about his sexual encounters. He would brag about cheating on his girlfriend and said that once his girlfriend kept coming back to him despite his cheating because he was charming.
I felt angry when he was bragging about it but now to think of it, I was being jealous of him. As a friend, he is a loyal bro, often saying things like “I got your back” and “I will never touch my bro’s women”. I used to a simp and very naïve believing in true love. Looks does not matter, what matter is you have a good character. But apparently that is just a lie to comfort those beta males. The world is a cruel place, and kindness does not pay. You must be ruthless to fight for what you want. I heard some guys becames fboys after being hurt badly in their first relationships after they got played.
Girls want someone who will go out of their way to defend their rights, not someone who is kind and spend their time helping others. If you do not believe, most women will not agree to let their husband lend a large sum of money to help their bros. 80% of the women go for the top 20% of men and women will keep cheating to find the alpha male. In Japan, 60% of the women cheat on their partners.
Monogamy is a lie. We are polyamorous. Evolutionary speaking, it is more advantageous for men to have multiple sex partner to increase their reproductive chances. In fact, it is normal for men to cheat. To men, we can detach emotional from sex. In NS, we can often hear about encik visiting prostitutes on their overseas mission. There are many cases of men sleeping outside, but still not neglecting their families. To be honest, does it matter a guy sleep outside as long as no one knows. Sometimes, ignorance is bliss. I often see people bashing confessions about cheating saying that their partner deserves better and asking them to confess and leave their partner, but I find it pointless.
So what if the truth is known? It will only hurt the other party. The commenters are only saying to make themselves look better. Doesn’t everyone keep secrets in their relationship? Who is going to be responsible for their relationship and well-being? Now that I have seen through the illusion of true love, I see no reason to hate on fboys. People who do that are probably those who are jealous of their success and unwilling to accept the harsh reality. The fboy thinking is actually correct, those hoes ain’t loyal.
Relationships are just about being able to provide what the other party wants. Who cares about loyalty and what you have been through?