A girl took to social media to ask whether guys are allowed to “hit back”.
She admits that she hits her boyfriend a lot because she has some anger issues that she needs to vent.
She added that her boyfriend also does things that annoy her, like talking a lot and playing games, which leads to her hitting him.
She rationaled that girls are allowed to hit guys.
However, recently while walking to her house, he was complaining about his job, and so she slapped him.
She admitted that she slapped him pretty hard.
The boyfriend then finally hit her back, which shocked her.
She shared that he shoved her away really hard, and she tumbled and fell, and he didn’t apologize and scolded her on the spot before leaving.
The couple haven’t contacted each other for a few days and she is wondering if this is a red flag for her.
She then asked if a guy “hits back”, will he be violent in a relationship?
You can read her full confession below:
“I’m really wondering, are guys allowed to “hit back”?
So I admit I hit my boyfriend a lot. I’ve had some anger issues before and I just need to vent, and my boyfriend also does things that annoy me sometimes like talking a lot and playing games.
But girls are allowed to hit guys and I think guys have no problems with it.
Besides, usually it’s not like serious injuries happen, nothing a guy can’t handle.
But recently we were walking to my house and he was complaining about his job which he clearly knows will annoy me, so I slapped him.
I admit it was quite hard, but then he did something that shocked me.
He shoved me away really hard, and because I was not expecting it I stumbled and fell. And not only did he not apologize and help me up, he actually scolded me on the spot, and then he left.
We have not contacted for a few days, and I’m wondering if this is a red flag for me?
If a guy “hits back”, will he be violent in a relationship?“
Naturally, netizens were siding with the boyfriend and calling her out for abusing her boyfriend and being the one with the “red flag”.
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