My girlfriend is angry at me because she was sleeping and had a dream about me cheating on her, then starts a fight with me and now wants to break up.
My gf has been dreaming a lot about me cheating on her or treating her badly in her dreams.
This has happened around 7 times already and I keep on waking up to her angry messages about how I treat her in her dreams.
I always apologized for it even though I did nothing wrong and have made sure to assure her that I would never do those things in real life.
But today was the last straw, I woke up to her being very pissed at me and I decided that I would not apologize this time because its honestly my fault and I’ve done all I can to assure her.
Now she wants to break up because I was being too aggressive towards her and her insecurities.
Netizens’ comments
- Tell her you have apologized to her in your dreams.
- Lol let her go. She crazy. You don’t want that in your life.
- Sounds like your GF has issues. Also, cheaters usually accuse their partner cheating on them, just FYI
- So, she blames you on what is happening in her head, treats you badly about something imaginary and then has the audacity to say that you are not sensitive to HER insecurities? This is not your problem. You have been trying to ease her mind but she gets worse. Either she sorts out this problem or you don’t need the crap and walk out. Maybe counselling is a good idea for her to find the route of this cause.
- Why tf would you apologize for her dreams? That is a seriously unhealthy dynamic the two of you have got going on. If she threatens to breakup over something like this, she is either not mature enough or not mentally stable enough to be in a relationship. Let her go.
- She’s HELLA insecure. Imagine being mad over a false reality in your head. Sounds kinda psychotic really… Not that I think she’s crazy, just very misguided.
- Nope. Do not apologize for something you had NOTHING to do with. I’ve had those types of dreams and woken up angry. But I also realized that my husband didn’t do anything and that my imaginary anger was just that – imaginary. She needs to own up to her actions and false accusations or you should reconsider her compatibility with you.