My gf (20f) blocked me and is upset at me (21m) for not buying a luxury bag for her
I have been with my partner for almost 3 years now and recently today my gf called me in the morning all upset and angry at me for not getting her a $4,000 bag which is now out of stock.
She now blocked me so I can’t message her nor is she refusing to even talk to me.
You see the thing is I am only a full time student who only has nothing but an underpaid part time job and monthly school allowance from my parents which is just nice to cover my daily expenses.
I already feel guilty enough but I never for once failed in trying my best to provide her with the best gifts and love in our relationship despite my limited finances.
Furthermore I always have to tighten my belt and survive only having a couple of dollars for me to spend for myself.
I’m just at a point where I’m mentally exhausted and frustrated even though I have tried talking to her countless of times about it but it ends up with another cycle of her ignoring the subject and getting upset at me.
Netizens’ comments
- Holy crap, dude. Drop this entitled, spoiled brat yesterday.
- Are you for real? You don’t see how you’re being used? You’re a student with a part time job and trying to provide her with ‘the best gifts’ and depriving yourself??
- She sounds like a scammer—probably with a few fish on the line. Let me guess: you do not see each other as often as you would like, and when you do, you’re expected to pay for everything plus buy her stuff.
If so, you don’t have a girlfriend, you have a paid escort.
Do yourself a favor: hit the gym and the books. Add some campus activities, and you’re certain to find real girls who are interested in you, not your buying power. And block the current user-GF forever. Good luck. - She’s being unreasonable. Does she think she’s a Kardashian? Whatever you do, do not spend $4,000 on a stupid purse.
If she breaks up with you over that, good riddance because she’s just using you and has no care for how spending that much money would negatively effect you.
Frankly, I’d dump her right now for being selfish and manipulative. You’re 21. This relationship isn’t going to last, anyway.
There are plenty of other women in the world, go find one that isn’t a user. I know that at your age 3 years seems like a long time but it’s nothing in the scheme of things.