A gold digger girl is asking if she should break up with her boyfriend because of his family background.
Here is the story
Should you ever break up with someone because of their family background? I know it makes me sound like a shit person but I feel like family background matters in the long run.
For example, if you are Low SES you can never afford to eat at places your partner wants to eat at etc
Another example is if their family has a lot of personal issues regarding health, money, internal conflict etc.
if you marry into the family, you inherit all the problems that come with it.
Am I selfish for considering it? There is no doubt that I love my partner, I understand their background is not something that they chose but it’s smth they have to live with.
But I CAN choose. I will always be envious of couples where both partners come from normal families with no issues.
After a while their family issues wears you down, I can’t imagine living this life forever. Please advice. I would really like to stay with my partner through thick and thin but it’s getting really hard.
Netizens’ comments
- Be single forever so that you wont need to think about issues you will inherit from your partner
- Love is not enough. You are not wrong to consider how life would be once you inherit the problems that come with your partner’s family.
If you can’t commit and cope with those problems then don’t put yourself through the misery thinking that love conquers all.
You “can’t imagine living this life forever” and “it’s getting really hard” — so will you choose love, will you choose hardship? I think you have the answer.
- Yup you CAN CHOOSE. I hope you choose to break up with your partner. Spare him/her the hardship of pleasing you wherever you go. You are too self entitled based on these comments.