would you pursue intimate relations with an older co-worker?
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i (25f) got a very good-looking colleague, who i got great banter with. we get along pretty well and i was the first person he told that his ex gf broke up with him.
we’ve been flirting for a while now and one day it got so steamy that i thought we were gonna take off our clothes and do it right on the counter lol (but didn’t since it would be unprofessional).
the only thing which could potentially be off-throwing is the age gap between us… there’s such chemistry between us, even though he’s 40yo, but he looks much younger and has the vody of a 27yo tbh
Netizens’ comments
- My male perspective was I was 26 with a 52 fwb. Amazing. Taught me some tricks. Had a great time.
Only problem, we worked together. It was fun for a while but then it got weird. I had to find a new job.
So, there’s that option. - Why ask for advice but then shut down the advice? You obviously have your mind set and ready.. just go for it.
- Fine if you don’t care about the job! It is not going to be pretty in the office if things end badly.
- As with any potential relationship with a co-worker, I’d say, one of you should quit the job then start hooking up/dating. Not only for ethics, but it can be horrible to engage in such things at work, for many reasons.
- Between the age gap and working relationship, no, I personally wouldn’t. Been there, done that- three times. I’m a slow learner, but I would never do it again after those experiences.