A girl asked if it is true that all guys discuss their female friends’ bodies or is it just her friends and she wondered about men’s minds.
Here is the story:
Just a rant. Is it true that guys discuss their female friends’ bodies among themselves or is it just me being suay to have met this kind of friends..
One of my guy friends told me they talked among themselves about girls’ bodies like who has the biggest cup size or nicest body or butt. Who knows what goes through their minds when they talk to us lol. And he still had the audacity to tell me about it.
Let me be clear: I’m not here to judge. We’ve all heard stories about guys comparing the body parts of their female friends, or even worse, their girlfriends. It’s gross and it’s wrong, but it happens.
I’m not here to judge because I’ve been guilty of it myself. When I was younger, I remember talking about girls with my buddies, discussing cup size, butt size, and other body parts. It was a way for us to bond and show each other that we were “in the know” about female bodies. We were trying to impress each other, or at least that’s what we thought.
But now that I’m older, I realize just how shallow and disrespectful that kind of talk is. It’s not okay to talk about a woman’s body like she’s an object – it belittles her and strips away her dignity.
So, is it true that guys discuss their female friends’ bodies among themselves? Yes, unfortunately it is. But that doesn’t mean it’s something we should accept. We can do better. We can show respect to our friends and girlfriends, and stop objectifying women.
PS I immediately distanced myself and ended friendship with this friend because I don’t need one who’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing.
Editor’s note: Walao how come nobody discuss my body.